[to dev/1.3] Improve query modification loading memory control (#17788)

[shuwenwei]

Cherry-pick d563cd0 (#17788) to dev/1.3.

Adapted to 1.3 APIs:

• Modification / Iterator
• PlainDeviceID
• PartialPath(IDeviceID, String) checked exception handling

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 82.14286% with 35 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 44.51%. Comparing base (fb0b2d9) to head (c6b52c3).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on dev/1.3.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ne/execution/fragment/FragmentInstanceContext.java	17.39%	19 Missing ⚠️
...modification/io/LocalTextModificationAccessor.java	79.06%	9 Missing ⚠️
...ne/execution/fragment/QueryModificationLoader.java	95.27%	6 Missing ⚠️
.../planner/memory/FakedMemoryReservationManager.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             dev/1.3   #18466      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      44.46%   44.51%   +0.04%     
  Complexity       198      198              
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  Files           3641     3643       +2     
  Lines         246603   246813     +210     
  Branches       30284    30316      +32     
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+ Hits          109654   109860     +206     
- Misses        136949   136953       +4     

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